As a 30 something black woman living in Chocolate City I’ve come to an interesting conclusion regarding love and dating with regard to the African American community as it currently stands.
Black Men have lots of viable, desireable options when it comes to marriage and love. Black Women don’t, and may have to come to grips with the fact that many of them who want marriage will never find it.
Now, I come to this conclusion not from a scientific study or quantitative measure…this is just opinion. However, I’d like to know…Is it just me or does the dating scene seem a little bleek for African American women let’s say….30-45 years of age??? You tell me? Sistas, are you meeting good men, men that you think would make good husbands and fathers? Brothers, are black women superficial and trying to find mates that don’t exist? Does anyone out there in the dating world actually know what they want…are they realistic in their desires?